ThingstoDoBeforeIDie
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Anonymous
Afewweeksago,Ifollowedafriendintoanart-sulystore。Ifoundhimickingouttubesofwater-coloraint,whichsurrisedmebecausehe’snotanartist。
“Isigneduforawater-colorclass,anditstartsnextweek,”hesaidsheeishly,“Idon’treallyhavetimeforit,butitwasonmylistof50thingstodobeforeIdie,soIwentforit。”Thissoundsinteresting,“Whatelseisonthelist?”Iaskedhim。
“Allkindsofthings,”hesaid,“EveryfewmonthsIlookatthelistanddecidewhattofocusonnext。BeforeIhadthelist,ImoanedalotaboutwhatIwasmissinginmylife。NowIjustdostuff。”
“CanIseeyourlistsometime?”Iasked。
“Idontknow,”hesaid,“itrevealsalotaboutme。Writeyourownlist,andyoullseewhatImean。”
SothatnightIdidjustthat,andhewasright。Thelistrevealedawholelotaboutwhatwasimortanttome。ItalsorevealedhowhoelesslybehindIamatgettingtothethingsIreallywant。
Justwritingthelistheledmesortthroughsomeofmyrioritiess。Ifilleduthefirst20blanksquickly,butthenbegantothinkcarefully。EventuallyIaddeditemsIvethoughtaboutforyears,dreamsI’vecarriedwithmesinceIwasyoung,andthingsthatresonatedwhenIfirstheardaboutthem。WhenIreviewedthelistlater,someentriessurrisedme。
First,Iwanttotravelmuchmore,articularlynowthatmychildrenareolderandcangowithmetoseetheworld。IwouldliketotakethemtobikethroughDenmarkandcamintheCanadianRockies。
I’malsosurrisedtofindsomethingsonthelistthatneedtobedonesoon。IfI’mgoingtolearntoroller-blade,forinstance,I’dbetterstartbeforeIturn50。
Afewoftheitemsareintimidatingbecausetheymeanaseriouscommitmentofsomesort。IwouldliketoublishanovelbeforeIdie,andIalsowouldliketolearntolayianowithastringquartet。IfImgoingtoaccomlishthesethings,Ineedtostartwritingeverydayandolishingmyianoskills。
Likemyfriend,Inowhaveanalternativetocomlaining。WhenImboredwithlife,Itakeoutmylist。MaybeI’llsendofffortravelbrochuresorsitdowninfrontoftheiano。
Ihaveacousinwhohasaccomlishedanamazingstringofinterestingthings。Shetoldmethekeywasrearingthegroundsothatlifecouldworkinmysteriousways。“Ifyouwantyourshitocomein,youmustbuildadock,”shesaid。
Thankstomylist,I’mworkingonsomebigdocks。
几周前,我和一个朋友去了一家美术用品商店。他不画画,所以当看到他挑选水彩时,我觉得很奇怪。
“我在一个水彩画学习班报了名,下周开课,”他羞怯地说,“事实上我根本没时间去学,可那却是我列出的一辈子要做的50件事之一,所以我还是报名了。”听起来很有趣。我便问他:“你列出的还有别的什么事呢?”
“各种各样,”他说,“每隔几个月我就拿出单子来看看,决定下次该做什么事。在没列出这个单子时,我总对生活中失去的太多而感慨。而如今我只是努力使生活更充实。”
“我什么时候可以看看你的单子吗?”我问。
“不知道,”他回答,“它毫无保留地将自我展现出来。你若也列出自己的单子,就会理解我的意思。”