迪文小说

第55章 瑕疵之美 1（第1页）

TheArtofImerfection

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Thoughweallagreethattoerrishuman，eachofusbelievesthatsheistheexcetion。We’resuosedtobeerfect（Wewerealsosuosedtoberichandfamous。）。

Butlearningfromourmistakes—andaccetingourlain—oldaverageness—isanart。Sonexttimeyoubreakalateorloseyourkeys，whynottakeitinstride？Considertheossibilitythatthereisahiddenatternbehindthemistakesinyourlife。

1。Theartofbeingneitherrichnorfamous

Inordertobeerceivedassecialanddifferent，celebritiestodaystrivetoshunthelimelightandbecomeaveragefolks。（Admitit：Don’tyouloveknowingthatSharonStoneshosattheGa？）Butregardlessofhowmuchmoneytheyhaveinthebank，orhowmuchofabuzztheycreatewhentheyshowuatacluborcharityball，famousfolkswillneverbeabletoenjoythelifeyouandIcherish。Small，reassuringleasuresareoff-limitstothem。Youneverseethemborrowingbooksfromthelibrary，lingeringinacoffeeshoorwindowshoingonMainStreet。

Oneofthesaddestthingsaboutacquiringfameandfortuneisthatonceyourealizeyouhavelenty，youmaywantlentymore。Often，lifeisnolongerasgoodasitgets。Youneversay，“Enoughalready”。

Theonlydifferencebetweenawisemanandafoolisthatthewisemanknowsheisafool。Inthesameway，theonlydifferencebetweenanextraordinarylifeandanordinaryoneistheextraordinaryleasuresyoufindinordinarythings。

2。Befoolishinublic

Honestandgullible，trustingyetreckless，layfulbutinsecure：Thesearewhatittakestobesilly。Itisusuallytheresultofacombinationofoursterlingqualitiesandourquirkyersonalitytraits。Wearetruertoourselveswhenwestomakingsense。Unlikestand-ucomicswhosetouttobefunnyandgethecklediftheyarenotsillyeolebecomelovablesimlybyembracingtheroleoftheotherguy，thecharacterwhobumsintowallsandshowsuatartieswithsocksthatdon’tmatch。

Sonexttimeyouarecaughttalkingtoyourselfinanelevator，don’taologize。Thesilentgratitudeyougeneratewhenyourevealyourmostvulnerablesidetoothersiswellworththetemoraryblush。

Flauntingyourflaws，notyourcleverness，iswhatwillmakeyouoularwithyourfriends。

3。Findmeaninginyourmistakes

Inartandarchitecture，whataearstobeagoofisoftenadeliberatesignalmeanttodrawattentiontoaarticularasectofthework。InIslamicart，forinstance，smallflawsaboundinwhatlooklikethemostluxuriouscarets，otteryandmosaics。ArtistsareurgedtouroselymakemistakestoremindadmiringobserversthatGodaloneiserfection。

Inmusic，notesthatdeviatefromanestablishedatternareoftenusedtocreateemotionaltension。Inthe“FuneralMarch”ofhisThirdSymhony，Beethovenrelacedsoundswithsilencestoexressthemountingsenseofsorrowintheiece。Inliterature，JamesJoycewasthechamionoftheintentionalerror。ForJoyce，mistakeswere“ortalsofdiscovery。”InUlysinarticular，tyos，missellingsandabsenceofunctuationaddtotheinsightfulnessofhisrose。

Takeamomenttowonderattheuniquenessofthemistakesyouareabouttomake。

4。Askforhel

Weallneedtoberemindedfromtimetotimethatwerobablydon’thavewhatittakestosolvealltheroblemsoftheworld。Butwearewonderfullyequiedtomarvelatitsexistence。Tothisend，wemustgetridoftheideathatweareindisensable。